i've been single for 9 months. I'm not clingy but i'm co-dependent i hate being single oh well

 

i love single life.. i can concentrate on my car. me and my current "girl" went out for like 3 yrs.. now we're friends with benefits. i love single life!!!!

 

Wow, 3 years. I can't even imagine that at this point.

 

yea i got tired of being soficated... but now im actually tryin to look for a decent grl that i can be compatible with.. in and out of bed..YES OUT OF BED AS WELL!!! IM NOT A TOTAL PIG!! im not a pig...

 

Lol I don't think anyone will hold it against you - I mean, how can anyone have a relationship with another person if they don't excite each other sexually?

 

exaCTLYYY!! plus this is the age for me to get it all out... as my chemistry teacher put it, im "young, dumb and full of ...." lmao..

 

i was with my husband for 5 years. married since october 1st of 2004 he abused me both verbally and physically for 5 years. January 2007 after we filed bankruptcy i had enough and i left him. In april he moved back to new york. I filed a lemon law, lawsuit on my older car won $1700 and he thinks he deserves half my money he refuses to sign a power of attorney so i can cash the check and my medical bills. therefore i refuse to divorce him.

Because of him, i couldn't have friends, couldn't go out, couldnt' do anything. Every day and even to my face he accused me of cheating on him. I took diet pills to lose the weight because he referred to me as a fat ****. I didn't lose weight but i nearly had a heart attack and now i have high blood pressure. I went into the hospital with a 175/145 blood pressure. I only married him because he was arrested for domestic violence and to keep him out of jail i married him. (stupid stupid mistake)

That's the jist of it.

 

OUCH! And yeah. My step-daughter got involved w/a guy that had drug and alcohol problems, andseveral other kids w/several other women,because she thoughtshe "could make a difference." They had two girls together, now he's in jail for abuse, drug and physical, and she's left to struggle w/the kids. Stupid, stupid, stupid!!!
We kept trying to tell her that it was a mistake, but of course she knew better... until she didn't anymore.

Hey!!WOW!!! This thread has gotten, I don't know... depressing? Is it the holidays? i know I'm having a lot of trouble getting any holiday spirit myself. That happens from time-to time, I know from experience.
I'm in the wrong business to be able to enjoy the season. Retail sucks, but sometimes I overcome the negativeanyway. Not this year... not so far.

 

"Heavy!"That's the word I was searching for. This thread has gottenheavy.

 

Married 11 years and been with my wife 16.