thanks a bunch to you guys who directed me away from what the online manual says is the correct spark plug, as do some auto part web sites.
i found this on amazon :
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00...ef=oss_product

NGK (3741) PZFR5F Laser Platinum Spark Plug, they are $10.32

each and the gap is the proper 8mm. had the 11mm in first and Milli S surged, had no power couldn't jump on the pedal & go, now the next day I can with these installed last night in 2 hours!

 

I can say this also. Although I don't have a Milly. I was running Bosch Platinum 4's and it ran like crap. I just replaced those over the weekend with the NGK Laser Platinums and it runs beautiful now.